How Talk About an Occupational Therapist Referral for Your Child
Has your child been showing signs that they are lacking in fine and gross motor skills? Do they seem to be behind in peers and it has you concerned? Talking about getting a referral for an occupational therapist for your child might be the next step you need to take.
Today we received a call from our case manager from Early Intervention to arrange her coming over and me (is it just me or do moms sign almost EVERYTHING when it comes to children?) sign paper work for Korey’s referral for an occupational therapist.
Our case manager is amazing, I really love her and appreciate the time that she spends with us. Even if she likes to stay longer just to get out of the office! We chat about everything from Korey, to her children, to our cats even. While reading what his speech therapist wrote as far as the recommendation she stopped to talk to me about the part of autistic signs.
The problem with Korey is that if you only see him for an hour a day, during some of the those hours he’s tired or really focusing on what he’s doing and no he will not make the eye contact he should and yes during some moments it may seem like he’s showing signs of autism but she completely disagreed while watching him because he went against everything the speech therapist wrote down. Seeing an occupational therapist would be helpful for him.
And that’s where we are having the problem, because sometimes someone will want to say autism while another professional (teacher or whatever) will say NO because they have SEEN what he can do. It hurt’s my heart so bad because we can’t get a reason as to why he is now the way he is and what could be wrong with him, I just have to sit and cry and help my baby along the best I can.
I broke down,again, today and Keith held me as I cried. I asked him “why give him so many things, why allow him to excel at everything and then take it all away from him?” . Everything was so perfect up until he turned 1 1/2, things just started going away and now he has maybe 6 words and A LOT of signs now. Yes I am sooo proud at his signs that he’s doing but it hurts that he’s not saying the words normally like he should have been.
When you become a parent they only offer advice on so much, sleeping troubles, sickness, teething, not what to do when your world comes crashing down because your child loses skills.
Being pregnant I’m afraid for my second child as well, not only do I worry that they could lose skills as well but now that Korey will be in 3 different therapy sessions I want to make sure I give each child enough attention, while still working on Korey’s skills.
One of the best things I have learned through being a special needs parent is not only to trust my gut. But also to find those who are professionals that I can trust.
Getting an Occupational Therapist for your child may just be the best thing you can do for them.
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just stay patient and try not to get frustrated. keep working, he’ll get there!
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Praying for you & your family.
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Thank you for sharing this post with your readers. You are doing everything you can with Korey, and he is going to get a wonderful Occupational therapist that will really help him. I hope you feel better after crying and I am glad Keith was there to help you. My prayers are with you!
Hang in there I have been there with my daughter. It all pays off in the end.
Ah, the joys of being a parent of a special child – although I think ALL kids are special in their own ways. I wish you good things for your children.
Every child is a Miracle of God. Love them and care for them the best way you know how. Ask and He will guide you.
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Beautiful little boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Trust in the Lord, he knows what hes doing.
Aw! He’s such a cute little boy. I wish I knew what to say to make you feel better. He looks strong, healthy & happy and like he will make it far in life. Some people will say anything, and it’s just not true sometimes. Like my adopted neice – the doctor told her mother that she would never “walk” or “talk” because of medical issues when she was a newborn. She walks, talks, and a smart, sweet girl. She accepted this as a mother, but it was never true. Just be strong. Love is stronger than worry, right?
It sure is tough to know what is best for your child. Sometimes you just have to hope & pray that you are doing the best that you can.
OMG, don’t even get me started. It is THE most frustrating process. I don’t know why they make it so hard on the parents to get help for their kids.
It is good that he is getting therapy. Hope one day you will look back and see the great things he has accomplished
I know this frustration all too well :/ Hang in there, you’re his greatest advocate!
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We had a therapist for a while since my youngest had delayed speech. Now we are working on my oldest who can’t focus at school. And my youngest doesn’t want to poop in the big boy potty. It all can be very draining and overwhelming.
Thank you for sharing such a personal journey and your fears and vulnerabilities. I am standing in the gap for you that all things are working together for good.
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He is cute. Stay positive. The answer will come.
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This has to be such a stressful and trying time for you guys! Thinking of you!
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He looks like a sweet boy.All you can do is love him no matter what.
It really depends on the kids and who they’re with. One of my girls took her time before she finally warmed up to the people in school.
Korey is adorable. The only things I can say to is to hang on and just be strong for Korey. I am praying for you and your family.
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Thank you so much. There is so much in this upcoming year for him I’m hoping I can stay strong.
Not having the answers and getting conflicting advice would be so hard! I hope you eventually find out what you need to know.
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It’s so hard when different doctors tell you different things. Your his mom, so you know him the best. Trust your own heart.
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The advice never stops either. Mine are grown and people still tell me how to raise them. 😉 I love the swing pic!
You will get throw this. Have faith in yourself. My son has ADD and been to speech therapy since he was 2 and he is 12 years old. He used to have occupational therapy but it stopped now. Whatever best for our child, we always give it for them to have a normal life.
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Be patient and dont give up. You will make it through this. You little guy needs you.
Hugs mama! You’re seeking help and doing the best for your son. I can’t imagine how you’re feeling, but know that you doing a great job!